Community : General Chat : A or B (YOU CHOOSE)

Franchise: May 12, 2008 - 12:18 AM PST A: nice guy

B: jerkoff

C: check out "Nice Guys Finish Last" thread

BLA: May 11, 2008 - 03:54 PM PST B. If I cant be her friend first, what's that mean our relationship is worth? FYI: I'm not into one night stands.

flowrktty: May 11, 2008 - 09:15 AM PST
my thoughts exactly

mistercool: May 11, 2008 - 08:46 AM PST
Don't be concerned about sounding "whiney" - we can't hear ya anyway. Besides, most people are gonna understand, and the rest can ... well ... no know ->

I'm pretty sure you're not gonna have any trouble finding guys that like and want to be with you. Since nobody can tell you when that's gonna happen, the question is - can you be happy in the meantime?

trenchael: May 11, 2008 - 08:09 AM PST

I could have guessed this was the case from your first post.

elg0nz: May 10, 2008 - 11:15 PM PST Fuck a, date b, marry C?

Wordlings: May 10, 2008 - 10:39 PM PST I was going to respond:

"I dunno...which one's got the bigger rack?

I'm guessing one of these is you and one is the girl you hate who is competing with you for the attention of the boy you love. I think it's clear, by your keywords, who's who.

I'm sure you'd find A is not as evil as she seems, neither is B as pure as she seems. Both A and B will find men right for them, probably."

sparksfly: May 10, 2008 - 10:35 PM PST and i'm bored and thinking about it! It would suck if ANOTHER guy i like, chooses her over me
I'm sorry I sound so whiney....ahah

sparksfly: May 10, 2008 - 10:33 PM PST ahaha yeah i totally agree, I'm just pissed off cause a girl I know makes it her mission to compete with me with every guy i am interested in. She will go out of her way to get their attention.......basically in short, I am in some ways both girls yes, but in more ways girl B. Last night, I was talking to a guy and really hitting it off with him, but she was in the same room and she took off her shirt to catch his attention. And i was sort of surprised...I guess I just wanted some reassurance that all guys don't want girls like her (and I'm not trying to label her, but I know her and her tendancies pretty well)

Edmonds2007: May 10, 2008 - 10:22 PM PST Am glad that you entered your comment 'lorcas',I hate this type of question,so narrow and confining.No disrespect to 'sparksfly' but may I ask if you had something in mind by asking he question in the first place?

lorcas: May 10, 2008 - 10:16 PM PST categories are weak. we are all of these things at different points in our lives or even during any given week. Choose A and I'll be A, choose B and I'll be B. Choose C and I'll be C... etc. etc.

sparksfly: May 10, 2008 - 09:52 PM PST A isn't particularly fashion forward, but not fashion inept either.
She wears make-up every single day, nothing over the top, but still.
She has piercings to show them off.
She has long sex hair and for good reason.
She doesn't believe a guy who doesn't want sex exists. She almost doesn't believe in love.
She is into photographs, good books and good music, but chooses to mention her interest in drugs, sex and alcohol first.
She dances strategically so boys will notice her.
She acts confident and will talk to whoever she wants, no matter what.
She acts dumb sometimes and tries in every way to gain male attention, even if that means being overtly sexual.
She's the girl guys want to fuck.

B is style conscious and strives to look good all the time. But she's also silly and lazy, so wearing makeup everyday isn't a must and rolling out of bed with greasy bedhair is okay.
She has tattoos on her ankles but doesn't mention them, waiting for people to notice them by themselves.
She wouldn't have a one night stand.
She is overly optimistic and believe that true love can be found in the strangest of places.
She is into art and good music and is open and passionate about all of this. She parties too but doesn't choose to accentuate this part of her.
She dances as if no one were looking.
She talks to strangers if they spark her attention.
She will talk to boys that she is interested in, only if they show interest too. And even then, she is funny and clumsy, never aggressive.
She's the girl guys want as their friend.

I'm curious: Who do you choose, boys, and why?