if you get the feeling something has happened, it probably has. kick him out. it's never a wise move to allow a guy alone time with the wife.

blogging kind of leaves your mark, your imprint on the world of web 2.0, and so then you just ARE, instead of what you WANT TO BE. it's a form of utmost honesty on the part of many bloggers, but because the internet is anonymous, there are pretenders out there, and i'm sure since you are a father know this and try to protect your boys. i too know what it's like to be TOO CLOSE for comfort and communication, and although i am just shy of 21, i know what it's like to love, to want, to need, and to not be able to address these needs.