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I'm trying to stay up!

Thinking of you and wishing you a happy week!

Well, I'm working on something. Something big. Something ... dangerous. Muahahaha. :P No, seriously, I will post something new soon, I promise.

Happy Tuesday!

I HEAR YOU!

I'm so selfish! Grad Schools: YAY! I want to hear all about it! I miss talking to you. I want to hear all about what's going on. Let's make a plan soon soon. I need to stop talking talking all the time. I get overwhelmed and overexcited and blabber on, like now. Anyway, I'm doing lots of pregnancy research for my friend, so if you have any tips, I'd love to hear all about that as well :) MMMWA

hehehe. i enjoyed this blog. i think most people probably feel somewhat uncomfortable, like maybe feeling that you're intruding in on someone's private doings... but do you feel weird on their behalf or yours? if that makes sense. you should try not to let it bother you.. you're right, it's natural :) if they make enough noise to be heard, they probably don't mind being heard, you know?

It is awkward to hear my roommates in the next room having sex. Sometimes I turn on music to blot it out, other times I just leave. I have told them I can hear them and his girlfriend is totally cool with people hearing them, but he is completely freaked out by the thought. He has even yelled at her to be quieter so that they can continue without bothering people and embarrassing him.

Hey, I'm sorry I've been MIA, thank you for the talk the other night. Everything turned out well! God is good. I had a pretty cruddy weekend however and am feeling really attacked. I hope that things are going better with you. When I get things straightened out, I will give you a call. <3 Jaclyn

Hey! Thanks so much for your comment! I really appreciate different peoples' opinions, It always gives me new ideas and ways to handle things. It also helps to know that people that don't know you can care and help you out too! I recently broke up with him. I still love him and all and hang out with him, but its different and he knows it. It sucks to watch him cry, but I know it will help him to be a better person in the long run. He knows what he has to live up to at this point I think. He d...

really interesting outlook on marriage. thanks for your thoughts!

Hahahahaa- you're not weird at all for feeling uncomfortable. Even if they know you can hear them, it's this unavoidable contact with their very personal lives, and I feel like that should make most people uncomfortable. Its cool that your husband is fine with it, but doesn't mean you completely have to be! Still, I have no idea what you could possibly do to avoid it...

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OMG that's weird. Lol. I think I would have to laugh, but yeah totally awkward. We used to live next to these people that would fight all the time, though, and that was double awkward. We'd here them, "well then leave!" and the next thing you know we'd look outside and someone would have throw some furniture on the lawn or something. But I think they always got back together. Neighbors are crazy. Maybe the people above you like the fact they know you can hear them too. You never know...

LOL No, I totally agree with you on the awkwardness of that. Thankfully I haven't really had to deal with it, as the places I've lived have been better insulated perhaps. Ft. Collins... Army Housing then perhaps? My experience with sex sounds is perhaps worse... my parents!!! EEW!!! I remember being in high school, hearing my mom/stepdad every once in a while. THAT was gross... especially back then. Now I've been married and have had sex, so it's not quite as weird to me... but I agree ...