Hi Chelsea, I was watching this vid...I kinda used to be like you. In highschool I was very quiet, I had my small group of friends, and kept to myself alot. I think the confidence to speak your mind and put yourself out there just comes with experiencing life after school...when you're not judged with all the cliques and bullshit. But anyways...sumtimes I STILL feel like a wallflower even in the small group of friends that I have. I wrote a song, and I think you could really relate to it. It's just kinda about feeling left out and always bein the odd man out. Check it out if you would like, it is called "Am I the Only One?" ... I hope you like it.