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Am I horrible?

Title: Am I horrible?

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Added: 07-21-2008

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Hoffnungsl...

Aug 03, 2008 - 18:51 PM

Absolutely not scummy. She sounds like she is jealous that things didnt work out for her and that they might work out for you. If you really like this guy, give him a chance regardless of what your friend says. She may be mad about it now, but she will get over it, and if she doesnt then she isnt a very good friend.

Brunkster

Jul 28, 2008 - 11:33 AM

It's official: you're not a horrible person. Your friend can't reasonably expect to have "dibs" on every single guy she has ever liked or hooked up with once. Nessy is right. . .perhaps you should sit your friend down and just tell her how you feel. She may not agree with you at the end of the day, but at least everything will be out in the open. Good luck!

nessy

Jul 23, 2008 - 07:18 AM

This is a gray area in my opinion. From how you've described their relationship (your friend and the guy) it would seem a-ok to like the guy and/or date him. But, because of how she's reacting I think you need to be conscious of her feelings and opinions even if they seem outlandish, because she's your friend. So, that said, is she the type of friend that you can sit down with and have a heart to heart? I wonder if there is a way you can letter her know that you care about her and want to be mindful of her but express your feelings on the situation at the same time. I don't know if that makes any sense. Any, hope it's helpful, I miss you!