Am I SEXY? Are you?

May 16, 2008 - 23:29 PM PST

Every day everywhere around us, we are concerned with our external looks. What if the internal made the external? Every second of everyday we "rate" each other judge each other. We even went as far as creating a scale! oh she's and 8 oh he's a 5... What is wrong with us?! If someone is in touch with their own sexuality and confident enough that they don't seek for outside aproval, do they automatically become sexy? What is sexiness? and why is it so important to have it? ok, some might argue that it is necessary to attract the opposite sex, but the way it has escalated today people spend way more time worry about what's on their head then what's in it! So you attract him/her... then what? What if we took a different approach... what if we went around rating ourselves 9.99 and thought "what can i do to become a 10" by that i mean, giving up my seat on the bus to a pregnant woman and elderly person, loving and appreciating me and others for who we are, stop and really smelling the flowers and listening to the birds in the morning. There is so much beauty in this world, but we are are so focus on achieve a beauty that doesn't exist and possibly might never that we forget to enjoy the one that is... But hey, that's just one woman's opinion.