disowned??? why?

Jul 26, 2008 - 10:41 AM PST

well. i'm going to attempt to make a long story short, which i will leave a lot of information and reasoning out of the subject matter. but yes. i was recently on my way to a talent agency to do a movie and take some photo shots which was one of my big breaks.It was really important to me. i didn't have enough money for my trip cause i didn't get payed until the next week. so... out of desperation to make it to the gig, i had asked my friends for a couple of bucks for gas money. The end result was no because of gas prices and tight budgets. which was totally understandable. so .. i ask my father for a couple of bucks for the gas money that i needed to get there, which was approximately 20 bucks. He said he couldn't do it "ask you sis"he said. so i take it in to consideration and decide to give her a call. she says "yes". I was happier than a kid on his b-day. later on that day my stepmother calls and says "you are not getting that money!!!!" "i don't appreciate you asking her for money" i was so speechless i understood how a mute person feels when they want to speak!!! so i hang up the phone after HER conversation with HERSELF. i call back because i was thinking all my life i never ask them for money and this is how i get treated for the first time. now the only reason why it was "no" was because my step-mother blatantly hates me. I call back and ask a simple question why?(THINKING TO MY SELF) Its not like i was going to buy some crack or something!!! now keep in mind that my sister is 18 and capable to make her own decisions.i said "what do you have to do with what she wants to do for me???" "she is an adult". My step-mother flew off the handle. she acted as if i had totaled a Lamborghini or something!!! i was speaking to her with the most respect to and asked to calm down so we can talk like civilized people. but of course that wasn't going to happen. she then told me that she didn't want to talk about it. i told her i wanted her to talk to me about it cause i wanna know why she hates me so. she never wants to talk about it though. so she hangs up on me and tells me that she will have my father call me. so.. my father calls me. He came off really calm then he flew off the handle too. so i'm like dad blah blah blah this is what happened, but he didn't care. he said don't you ever talk to my wife like that. i was like... what the heck i just told her the truth and she hated it. By the way my parents are total control freaks and they want all there kids to be perfect. But my father wouldn't let me talk of course and totally disowned me by saying "i dont ever want you calling the house no more, come over this house no more, or and i will treat you like somebody out on the street" he says if HE wants to talk to me he will call me!! I told him "dad out of all the phones that i had you never called me once". i also said "what if i change my number". his response was " well tough luck" "good bye have a nice life". i was like ohhhh..... kay.wow all this over 20 bucks. i get disowned for telling the truth!!! i cant understand how people can be so controlling that they don't realize. even when you treat them with the most respect in the world!! but yeah yeah i feel sad about the situation cause they are my parents and i love them but why the ignorance of reality that your kids become adults, and they need a helping hand sometimes.I'm not expecting a pity party or any thing, but i just want to share my events that happened to me in my lifetime so that you can either learn or benefit from them. well i guess thats all for now. thanks for reading. ps if your wondering if i made it there. unfortunately no. it was the next day and i didn't have gas.