homewrecker?

Apr 13, 2008 - 14:09 PM PST

so...yikes, this is hard to explain, without you guys out there reading actually KNOWING the people i'm talking about, but i'll give it a try...
i'm in lurve. lurve is bigger than a crush but not quite in love, and i'm in lurve with this guy named nick. We are in a club at my school together, a club called Model United Nations (if yoiu wanna know more later, than just ask). Thursday and Friday of this week the club went to a simulation in Cleveland. I didn't see him during the actual simulation, but we hung out at dinner and at the hotel. and he had a girlfriend. I knew he had a girlfriend, he knew he had a girlfriend, and yet we were still flirting like crazy. i am NOT one of those serial flirters...and i hate the girls who say that they can't help flirting, because ANYONE can help what comes out of their mouth. and i knew it was wrong to flirt with him when he had a girlfriend, but i just like him so much. and he was flirting right back at me so he was being just as immoral as i was. and he kept telling me how him and his girlfriend had been having these horrible fights the past two monthes. he kept saying he just didn't want to try anymore. they had a huge fight friday night. and then they broke up on saturday night. and afterwards me and Nick talked on the phone for 4 1/2 hours. he didn't want to talk about the breakup considering it had just happened, but as the phonecall progressed we talked more about it...and he told me he was relieved. also, when i asked him why this last fight had been different and horrible enough to make him want to finally end it, he wouldn't tell me, and he said there were a lot of reasons. he never came right out and said that i was one fo the reasons, but it's kind of obvious that i WAS one of them. does this make me a homewrecker? does it make me a horrible person? we never did anything but flirt at the MUN simulation, so he didn't cheat. but now i wonder, if i wanted to get together with him...what's the grace period? how do i know when it's okay to actually hang out just me and him without everyone around us being like: Nick just broke up with Anna, how much of a bitch can you be?
advice!!
i'm in desperate need of advice!!
if you wanna know more there's a lot of other details...so just ask!