i hate my own kind [parental advisory : explicit content]

Mar 04, 2008 - 20:18 PM PST

I guess this is post two for the night but I have something on my mind that has been bugging me lately ... it's that stupid wrap that all guys around the world are being tagged with ... just because 99.9% of guys are assholes and treat women/females like items or property, does not mean that ALL guys do this.
Women are afraid to "put themselves out there" because they dont want to get hurt. Here's a fun fact for everyone: Did you know that when women say they are afraid to "put themselves out there" most, not all, mean they dont want to get used? Ok that's not the fun fact, when guys "put themselves out there" they are just saying that they like you, not wanting to have sex, not wanting other things, they just want to let you know that if you would like, they would like to try something ... like a date maybe.
More guys are drug through the dirt because they say the like someone than girls are used. Don't get me wrong I am not hating on women for protecting themselves, but people how are do you know if someone wants your heart if you don't try?
Seriously I know guys are assholes, infact I have built a motto that I try to live buy and that is, "guys are assholes, DONT BE ONE!" It's that easy.
So many people are going to hate me for this post because they will think I am talking to them for some reason or I am bashing their lifestyle, but you are fucking others over when you are out for your own gain so knock that shit off!
I guess my last thing is this, I have heard that love and a relationship are two things in the same. We all want to be loved and wanted so deeply that you cant get back to the surface no matter how much you try. Love is a selfish thing, we all want to be loved and missed so much that if something were to happen to us or our time was up on this Earth, the ones hearts that love us would break so much that they will never be the same. I know is sounds harsh but it is true, we all want that one person that would do anything for us, but the only way to do that is to "put yourself out there" and take a chance, just because 99.9% of guys screw women over does not mean that we are all like that.