Is there such a thing?

Mar 04, 2008 - 16:45 PM PST

Is there such a thing as finding the real you? Finding the person you were born to be? Can you actually find that person? I just don't think it is possible to be anything different then what you are now. Right now. How do you change? Do you just wake up one day and decide that you need to change? Or is it that we are always changing, but we just dont realize it cause we do so very slowly?

**new subject**
I like someone. hmm it is wierd. He is my cousins boyfriend. I know that is wrong isnt it? please just tell me. What do you do about something like that? I can't just walk up to him and say I like you. That would not go over well. No.. not at all! so back to the subject of change and being who we really are. Who I want to be is the girl who does walk over to him and say "Hey, you,I like you." but i am not, I am the girl who will sit and watch while he lives his life with someone else. So how do you change that. As much as I want to I can not. I cant make myself do something that I am scared of. How do you get rid of fears that have been born into you? I dont know. I havent figured it out yet! please.. help!